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Cohabitation

 


Cohabitation is the agreement between two cowards. This statement was said on a counselling show I love watching. To think of it, it is very true. 

Why would you cohabit with your boyfriend/girlfriend when you guys are not married? Is this not cowardice.

I don't understand why a lady would carry her bags to her boyfriend's house and live there. What are you looking for there? Are you married to him? Is that your house? Is that where you live? 

This is why guys see ladies as cheap because immediately you do that, you start acting like a wife; doing laundry, having sex with him, cooking, washing dishes, cleaning etc. Madam who send you? This thing that you are doing you are prolonging your marriage because you are already giving him everything he wants so what will push him to marry you. Absolutely nothing!!!

You will be there and you will see wedding cards with another lady's name on it. 

What gets me pissed about this whole thing is that some ladies even end up aborting or give birth to 2/3 children for the man. Ah!!! 

The man even ends up not respecting the woman because he sees her as cheap. He will even go out there and sleep around. He doesn't even care about your feelings. 

Ladies shine your eyes....you don't owe a guy anything when you are dating him. If he wants to see more of you let him take it to the next level which is marriage. The same goes to the ladies, if a guy is dating you, he owes you nothing. 

Do not pack your bags and go leave with him. If you want to see him, you can visit him or plan a date to somewhere neutral.

Act mature and be a virtuous woman and guys please stop saying 'if you love me prove it', that's so cliche. What is she proving exactly ?

If you love someone, you do not manipulate them with words just to do what you want and later say she is cheap. That's so wrong!!

Cohabitation is wrong and it can lead to so many inconvenience. There is no peace, no proper planning, your world turns upside down, you loose yourself, you become depressed, your family rejects you etc.

Be warned!!! Don't be a victim

If you are a victim please set boundaries and pack out immediately. God will see you through. It is well!!!


Always remember " A word to the wise is enough".



#positivevibesonly




PEACE!!!            SHALOM!!!


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