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RELATIONSHIPS (FUD 4 THOUGHT)


Everyone wants a fairy tale relationship 
Where the story line goes like this
On one bright Saturday afternoon at the mall

I was just checking out some dresses when suddenly my purse fell

I reached to pick it when he decided to do that for me
I looked at him and it was love at first sight
We started talking and it felt like we had known each other forever
Shortly after we started dating
This guy was just amazing
He understood me and accepted my flaws 
He was just my kind of man
The love was deep and I loved every inch of it
Years after, he popped the question 
 And I gladly accepted
And we've lived happily ever after till now

These kind of stories doesn't exist in reality
Trust me....they don't
In the beginning of every relationship is very lovely and sweet
but getting to the middle of it, things become very sour
And that is where questions start popping up in our  minds
"Why is he/she doing this to me?, does he/she really want this, is he/she cheating on me?
These are some of the questions that destroys our thoughts then we start tracking 
their every movements, accusing them falsely and being extremely jealous when we see
him or her talking to the opposite sex 
He/she might not be doing what we are thinking or assuming and that is disastrous...it can lead to calling the relationship off

In every relationship, there should be trust, honesty, respect, tolerance, compromise, patience, love,care, communication and most importantly prayer
If you have all these I bet you nothing can destroy your relationship except you decide to do it otherwise

And remember don't go into a relationship only for sex or money or material gains then that is not a relationship...is just for benefits and after getting all these things you will surely pay for it afterwards in a way you can never imagine

Never go into a relationship when you are not ready...Cos it is work and you have to give it a 100% and at the same time balancing it with your other responsibilities

Live a healthy relationship which will keep you smiling forever

PEACE!!!!SHALOM!!!

THANK YOU...


Comments

Unknown said…
great piece of mind blowing article keep it up and i really enjoyed readng this
7 August 2016 at 00:26
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