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True words were never spoken unless you associate your life with some people your life will improve. Anytime you tolerate mediocrity and others it increases your mediocrity. An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people. As you grow your associates will change. Your friends will not want you to go on, they would want you to stay where they are. Friends that don't help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dreams. Those that don't increase you will eventually decrease you. Consider this never receive counsel from unproductive people. Never discuss your problems with somebody who is incapable of contributing to the solution because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how. Not everyone has the right to speak into your life. You will certainly get the worse of the bargain when you exchange your ideas with the wrong person. Don't foll

Life doesn't give you the people you want, it gives you the people you need. To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to support you to become the person you know you can be. Be careful about who you trust and tell your problems to. Not everyone who smiles at you is your friend. Spending today complaining about yesterday won't make tomorrow any better.  A bad attitude is like a flat tire. You can't go anywhere till you change it. A good relationship is when someone accepts your past, supports your present and encourages your future. HAVE  A NICE DAY...........MUAHHH!!!!!! PEACE!!!!!!!                                SHALOM!!!!!!!!!

 Sometimes you have to forget whats gone,appreciate what still remains and look forward to whats coming next.  Be someone's sunshine when their skies are grey.   To the world you may be one person but to one person you may be the whole world. To love is nothing, to be loved is something and to love and be loved in return is everything.    It's always nice to have someone in your life that makes you smile even when they're not around. You don't need a perfect one, You just need someone who can make you feel that 'YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE'. HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND...............MUUAHHHH!!! PEACE!!!!!             SHALOM!!!!!!!!

Imagine with all your mind. Believe with all your heart and achieve with all your might. Work hard in silence and let  success make the noise.   Don't let a bad day stop you from reaching your goal. Be patient the best things happen unexpectedly. Be silly, be fun. Be different. Be crazy. Be you, because life is too short to be anything but happy.   To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don't need to be accepted by others. You just need to accept yourself.       HAVE AN AWESOME DAY............LOVE U GUYS TO BITS  PEACE!!!!!!!      SHALOM!!!!!

  Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines so when things are falling apart they may actually be falling into place. Sometimes the best thing you can do is not to think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best.   You were born to make mistakes not fake perfection so don't expect everyone to understand your journey, especially if they've never had to walk your path.  What defines us is how well we rise after falling that is why you were given this life because you are strong enough to live it. You are somebody's reason to smile so stay put.   Beautiful things happen in our lives when we distance ourselves from the negative things.  Always remember ' Maturity comes when you stop making excuses and start making changes'. #inspirationMonday #Upliftment HAVE AN AWESOME DAY...........MUAAHHHH PEACE!!!!           SHALOM!!!!!

Changing the mindset is very important especially when you are lost in your own thoughts, confused and having a hard time thinking of your next plan and worrying about nothing. Getting the best information only is a best way of starting to change your mindset. Reading the best books to get real facts and information. It broadens your knowledge and helps you to do adequate critical thinking and also helps you to stand on your toes which brings out that self-confidence.  Role Model the best people. People that you can emulate positively. People that can motivate you and encourage you into doing something more productive than sitting idle.As the saying goes "an idle mind is the devil's working place". So working steadily is the best way to go.  Shape your mindset with vision and goals. Know what you really want to achieve in the life and have an idea of where you would like to see yourself in the next 5 years or 10 years. Find your voice. What are you good at? That's

Work for a cause not for an applause. Live life to express not to impress. Don't be scared in going out of your comfort zone unless you want to forget everything and run or face everything and rise. Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try. If 'PLAN A' doesn't work, the alphabet has 25 more letters so stay cool. Look for something positive in each day, even if some days you have to look a little harder.  Don't let any obstacle on the road end your journey.   Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain. What hurts you today makes you stronger tomorrow. Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are. It is best to try and be a rainbow in someone's cloud and that is fulfilling. If you can't find a good role model. Be one that others can also look up to. Always remember, Live your life and not for people. Don't do these because your friends are doing same or your friends are

Peace is a delicate commodity we can't do without. Many countries scream of peace like Iraq, Iran, Somalia etc. Even in our homes we want peace, even on the street we want peace, even in our schools we want peace etc. Peace is very essential everywhere. You can't leave in a country without it. You can't leave in your house without it. So if you are in your country and enjoying the privileges of it, then please don't destroy it. As of the time we are in right now, i think is a wise idea for me to talk about it because some countries are campaigning, battling, convincing the people of the nation to vote for them so they become president of the country which for now the countries i know are Ghana and the US. Even though we all have the person we support and campaign for to win the election, we should also be mindful about how we go about it. We should know that we have just one country if we destroy it, where are we going to go to? Do you want to be refugees in another co

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       When we were babies, we practically just cried and we got everything we wanted. Thinking that life was that easy. At a push of a button we get everything we desire but as we grew up, things changed and reality sets in. We realized that life is not that easy but it takes hard work, determination and persistence.       Before you get what you desire or want you have to sweat. You need to dig up the soil. You need to strive hard. Is not that easy. Many people have walked that road; some have succeeded and others have failed that's the realities of life. You win some, you lose some.       Losing and getting back up doesn't make you a failure but losing and staying there makes you one. We wake up every morning and hope for success at our jobs. We all want to be successful. We all want to be rich. No one wants to be poor. No one wants to be a failure that's the realities of life. We yearn for the positive aspects rich, successful, prosperous, etc. no one wants the negat

When you know your value, you don't have to beg people to be in your life, to be friends with you, to spend time with you or to love you. Be confident in who you are, just remember not everyone can handle luxury. Peace!!!  Shalom!!! Have a wonderful day..........mmuuaahhhhh

   The people we surround ourselves with either raise or lower our standards. They either help us to become the best-version of ourselves or encourage us become lesser versions of ourselves. We become like our friends. No man becomes great on his own. No woman becomes great on her own. The people around them help to make them great.    We all need people in our lives who raise our standards, remind us of our essential purpose, and challenge us to become the best-version-of-ourselves. Peace!!!! Shalom!!!

I seek to find something special, something worth boasting about, something priceless. The treasures of ornaments can not describe that which you are. Only few lucky enough discover this true, that your beauty foretold by the skip of your beating heart..........I see you..........You are a treasure to find and worth searching for. You tickle my fancy when you walk pass me and your smile alone makes my world feel alright. I will never let you go. Where you go, there I will also be. My woman my everything. Xoxo                                                                                                                     Credit: Charlton Ocansey Peace!!!!!  Shalom!!!

There are various ways one can do to let go of your past but these are the few dos and don'ts I have decided to share with you. Try to accept the fact that you did something wrong and that wrong cannot be changed. Embrace yourself to the present, know that those things are long gone and this is a new dawn, a new day and a time to start all over to ascertain your goals in life. Do not cry over split milk, doing that is entirely a waste of time and remember time and tide waits for no man. So get up and start doing something for yourself because no one will. Wallowing in the past will only mean that you have been defeated. Remember the saying which says "Is not how hard you fall but how well you bounce back up" use it and that will help you alot..... I am still your one and only friend and blogger................have a nice day Peace!!!!!!! Shalom!!!!!!!!

In an African City, your level of education is determined by how well you think, analyse, diagnose and approach issues. In an African City, being a woman is determined how well you can keep a home, get pregnant and know how to cook if you are not in these three categories meaning you were not brought up well or you are barren. In an African City, keeping one's virginity till marriage is an honor to your family. In an African City, culture, tradition and values are of highly importance. In an African City, saying 'I LOVE YOU' on phone to someone else is an abomination In an African City, bringing a guy or lady to your house is highly unacceptable, it is viewed as being rude or not respecting your parents In an African City, talking back when spoken to by your parents is considered as disrespect or being rude and if care is not taken you can be slapped or beaten up In an African City, sitting at the hall when there is a visitor is considered as disrespect In an Afric

'Dare to move' a song by Switchfoot tells us that we shouldn't wait to make our move tomorrow but we should make it now because tomorrow might be too late. Tomorrow is inevitable. No one knows tomorrow. A tragedy could happen and that would have caused you big time and made you wonder why you didn't make the move when you got the chance. So never wait for the perfect time because there is nothing like the 'perfect time'. So get your lazy ass up and start working...........YOUR TIME STARTS NOW!!!!!! PEACE!!! SHALOM!!!

Be careful on how you treat people and how you view them. Respect all and never discriminate. We are all human beings. Help a hand no matter who the person is. You might never know what tomorrow might bring. He or she might be poor today but tomorrow he can be rich. You can be down today but tomorrow better things will come your way. Remember giving is living and being kind is been caring. No matter how small it is, it can save life and see all as equal. Stop discriminating....... Have a good evening. Peace!!! Shalom!!!

I walked on this path  Not knowing where I was going Until fear caught up with me With thunder striking and weird voices  I got frightened and my feet shaking And gasping my teeth As I turned courage held my hand  And told me not to be afraid  I pressed on Step by step I went After three hours i lost it And decided not to go again That was when strength embraced me  And told me am almost there  I pressed on  Step by step I went  I still couldn't get a glimpse of the place So I stopped And hope tapped me on the shoulder  Saying that I should keep looking  I pressed on  Step by step I went I got there with my eyes in tears And my mouth opened wide I have been bestowed all these Success, faith, prosperity, love and so many more I rejoiced and look at the mirror right in front of me And i said "Yes I did it" Remember in life no matter how steep the race is, your friends, family and loved ones will always be there to cheer you on Have a lovely W

Life is not always how we see it. Everyone has a perception about life in their mind. Some look at it as a journey, some look at it has a race for the swift etc. It is good to think that way. At least you have an idea in your mind the same way when you are in a deep mess, you have to create a nice imaginary idea or create a cartoon film in your head which will help you go through it and also keep you smiling. Doing this is a nice way of dealing with whatever problem you have and at least it will give you hope to forge ahead and deal with the enemy which is the issue at hand. If you are there suffering with an issue that has caused you to be drinking or having sleepless nights worrying over it. Try this with a positive attitude and you won't regret it. I remain your one and only friend and blogger.........love you all #Peace!!! #Shalom!!!  #Stayblessed

I see so many beautiful flowers in this lovely garden Am seated on this elongated log with a floral gown on and rainbow colours all over the place It is just so amazing I walk slowly into the woods and find many fruits  Ranging from grapes to kiwis From waterfalls to rivers  From giant trees to deer From beautiful cottage houses to wonderful designs Isn't this so wonderful I stand there in amazement and slapping the water with my feet And helping myself with some fruits With just a bite of it, i feel so rejuvenated, like a new born baby This place feels like heaven and this can be my own special place Pondering over these thoughts Suddenly i feel a warm touch on my shoulder As i slowly turned there He was A very charming handsome prince bows down to me and takes my hand And helps me on his horse  The next thing i knew we were in his palace with chandeliers everywhere Maids working with haste and taking strict orders Petals, golden ornaments and statues beautif

Why do we cheat? you are amazed right that i didn't say "why men cheat" because we all do it including women. I could write a whole lot why people cheat but what i can tell you is that in life if you really value what you cherish, you don't have to do this.  No matter what the problem the is, it would be better to quit than to cheat so that even when you with someone else you wouldn't feel guilty.......Everyone has needs so when is not forthcoming don't allow it control your mind. Be strong, pray over it and hope for something good to come out of it. You are a virtuous woman and you are a classic man so let people see that and emulate.         #bethechange  #controlyoursexuallibido  #loveyouguys #stayblessed

Have you been trying to loose weight? Have you reached a point where you just gave up and said no, no more? Let me tell you the truth.......Loosing weight doesn't come all of a sudden. It takes a lot of time for your body to completely change.It could be months or years. You have to be very patient if indeed you want to change how you look.   Loosing weight is very hard but when you complete that mission you will look so good, so confident and so fly cos that body will be banging and people will be drooling,,,, Don't you like to be the talk of town, don't you like it when people approach you and want to know the secret of your sexy looks? I guess your answer is as good as mine.  So i urge you to continue going hard in the kind of body you want and don't give up. Love you all #lookingflawless #bangingbody #goinghard

Be a fighter people. Never stop doing you and motivate people with what you do. Go around and talk to people and let them know that you ain't the only people suffering in this world. Let them get inspired by your story. Help people to come out with their true potential and make them smile. Nothing is too small in life so anything you do today for yourself or other people see it as a blessing and a good fortune. Be an inspiration to others. Make them come out of their shells so they be  proud of what they can also accomplish. Love u all #beamotivationtoothers #Peace #Shalom #Stayblessed

I am "ME" and I cannot be anyone else but Me. I walk with my head lifted high with grace and shake my butt and be happy with myself. I do things I like best and do it to the best of my ability. I like to stay indoors even when it's boring to the max. I respond to things such as jokes with a huge laughter which others think its irritating but that is ME. I act anyhow I please even if people talk about it but that's no one's business but mine. I like to watch the birds fly high up in the sky and butterflies fly with pride. I like the way I am and do things which brings out the real ME. I can't change who I am if I do then that would be someone else and not ME. #beyourself  #peace #shalom

Hello wonderful people I greet you all.................well this subject has been talked a lot all over the world and that is "CHILD MARRIAGE". I wouldn't bore you with percentages and researchers but i will tell you what i think and you are to do yours when you are done reading. Everyone has an opinion right? Child Marriages for me is not a good thing at all where young girls are given away in marriage for some sort of wealth or some barbaric tradition. Wake up guys this is not the ancient times, we are in the modern world and things should be done as such. We should stop practicing these things because you are killing our girls both physically and mentally. They are our girls, our future......... These girls are not ready for marriage but you force them into it for your own selfish gains which is not right and who said if you don't follow some kind of tradition you are going to die or something more worse is going to happen to you and your family? All these t

As i sat in the midst of people I ask myself What is life? Why this pain? Why this torture? But am not heard As i ran away from my fears My woes It stares at me in the face I ask myself Is this going to be forever? Is this my nightmare? I told myself I have to solve this mystery before it becomes history

This is my time to shine Enough of the finger pointing And the hating  You make me laugh when you guys keep planning my downfall But yet I always turn out being more than I was before  God has got me He has anointed me And he has sealed my destiny So stop trying Cos this is my time to shine You only want me to give up And say am not doing it again But you lie  Deep within your heart you know am more than a conqueror And nothing can stop me Cos this is my time to shine You keep playing with my thoughts And you think i will allow you play with my intelligence HAHAHAHA......what a laugh!!! I am the daughter of  a Messiah  So you listen  Back off and let me do my thing Cos indeed this is my time to shine PEACE!!! SHALOM!!!

What do men really want? I keep thinking....do you know because i need answers ASAP. Do you ask yourself this particular question sometimes. Do men love women with big butt and boobs with elegance personified or they want a career woman who has brains and thinks less of how she looks? What do men really want? Do they want marriage where they have to stay committed to one woman or they want to be free to jump from one woman to the other? What do men really want? Do they want a less nagging woman or a woman who is opinionated and says her mind? What do men really want? Do they want a perfectionist for a wife or a wife who is a realist and takes each day as it comes? What do men really want? What do men really really want because i can't place my mind on it. Well i think every human being wants it all including you so when something is missing, you tend to complain and look for ways and means to quit that relationship but deep down in your heart you know that's a lie.

Why do you keep running away from your fears? If you keep running away from it, you will keep running for the rest of your life. Be a fighter and handle it with boldness Never think anything is too big for you to do and accomplish. You are stronger, smarter and more resilient than you think. You are capable of achieving far more than you believe. You are meant for greatness like all of those who have achieved it. But it takes persistence. It takes determination. It takes facing your fears and doing that which is hard and necessary, instead of what is quick and easy. It takes skipping mythical shortcuts and using your imagination as a map and preview of life's coming attractions. So remember "RESIST YOUR FEAR, FEAR WILL NEVER TAKE YOU TO A POSITIVE END."  #INSPIRATIONALMONDAY #PEACE #SHALOM #STAYBLESSED 

I without you is like a song without lyrics I without you is like a car without an engine I without you is like a book with no meaning I without you is like love with no feelings I without you is nothing

Bullying, bulling, bulling i hear this word all the time whether in school, at the work place, among groups, social media etc. Bullying by now should be a thing of the past since we are in a civilized world but is a pity this word is everywhere even in the so called "advanced world". Why do they enjoy making people miserable? Why do they always say nasty things making them feel less of a human being? Are you a victim of such? Then this is the time to fight back. Let them know that you're strong, bold and fearless. You have something they don't have that is why they do that to you. They can't comprehend why you have such a brain and they don't. They don't understand that your beauty is so flawless that everything you wear looks good on you etc. That is the reason why they will do that to you. When they begin to do that, just look at them and smile. When they try to say more foul things to you tell them something sensible that will keep them thinkin

Death is inevitable so when it catches up with you at your doorstep, take it as one of those things that life brings. I know is very hard when your loved ones leave you and you cry so hard but has much as you cry they will never come back to life. That's how life is. Just wish them well in their next life and you will be fine. God can take life whenever he wants so we should be mindful of what we do and live our lives to the fullest before he calls us to his bosom. I know everyone wants to go to heaven but how sure are you that you are in the book of life? hmmmm...........something to think about............ We must take life one step at a time and be grateful when you wake up from bed, hail and hearty cos they are so many people in the hospitals who are been fed, bathed etc. and wished they could at least do something on their own or probably walk about and enjoy life........... Enjoy your day with a graceful heart, death will surely come whether you like it or not so l

I don't know what to talk about but I can't leave my viewers with nothing although i did that yesterday. My apologies. Something just came to mind and I think i have to talk about it. Why do people live fake lives? Am asking ,why? Is a big shame you know.  When a very pretty lady or handsome guy living a false life, all in the name of living big and showing your friends you have it all. When actually you don't. You rather live in a small house and you literally beg to survive. Oh why!!! Your parents are investing in your future but you come to school to sleep around and do other absurd things just to live up to that name. they saying they have traveled to all parts of the world, did their masters in Oxford University with a first class degree etc. Those people you are competing with so bad, are you sure they are telling you the truth. Do you know where they stay? Looks they say are deceptive so mind you think hard and don't follow blindly. Living a false life wil

A man who is brave A man who is honored by all and father to many A man with courage A man who has a heart of gold and very loyal A man who respects and supports his wife A man who allows the equality between a man & woman to prevail in a home A man who worships the ground his lady walks on A man with swag A man who is humble and gentle A man who is full of life A man with dreams A man who provides for his family YES THAT'S A MAN...............................

A woman with a sense of dignity A woman who is proud of who she is A woman who is seen as a mother to all A woman who is compassionate and has a heart of gold A woman who speaks with calmness A woman with great value & prestige A woman who prays without season A woman who listens to people's problems and gives solutions and doesn't care if hers is not heard A woman who parades herself with poise and elegance A woman who is decent and disciplined A woman who is not heard but seen A woman who takes care of her family A woman who compliments her husband A woman who is phenomenally unique That's a woman...............................

You are great You are a fighter You are a conqueror You are a survivor You are brave You are bold You are beautiful You are exceptionally unique You are a mother You are a father You are sometimes quick tempered You are sometimes afraid You are sometimes quick to judge All these things show that we are human and as time goes on some of these things and more will pop up as we go through life Apologize when you have to Smile when you have to Go out and hangout with friends when you have to Scream out loud when you have to Have your alone time when you have to Go crazy when you have to Dance when you have to Don't shy away from these things or shun life You are here for a reason Don't get too moody or too serious over anything People will always talk about the things you do whether good or bad So what Forget them After all what do they do for you, absolutely nothing  Enjoy the life God has given you and leave the riffraff to handle their business C

The moment I met you I knew you were the one Cos you were as bright as the sun Your looks were very unique Everything about you made me crazy  You walked in front of me And asked if the seat was occupied I said NO! You made yourself comfortable And sipped on your drink We started talking It felt like we had met a long time ago but that was only our first time I looked into your eyes And felt love,care,pure and true And fell in love with it

We constantly tell ourselves that we are doing the wrong things But we still do them because it is hard to do the right things always These are the days of our lives Popping champagne Going to parties And celebrating like there's no tomorrow These are the days of our lives Smoking in high heavens Peer pressure And the desire for wealth These are the days of our lives Prostituting Feeling big and bragging Murdering of innocent lives Sleeping with another man's wife False prophets These are the days of our lives The lives we embrace with smiles on our faces Cos that's what the society wants....  Hmmmm.....can't we change it? Am asking you....??????

Transgender, Transgender It keeps ringing in my head and i decided to talk about it Seeing the number of people who have actually done transgender, i would say 80% are men Come to think of it what makes one decide to do this? Is it the desire to look like a man or a woman? It disheartens my heart when i see these things go on Does one even sit down to think about the repercussions? My oh my This is really bad How will God see you when he has to judge you on Judgement day? Do you even think of that first? I don't think anyone with strong Christian/ Muslim values will do this. Those people who do this kind of things are sometimes pressurize through bullying and wanting to fit in the society they find themselves in But you need to fight it, have courage and be bold Transgender is never the answer to any solution Most at times what i hear is, i don't feel good in my own skin, I feel I should be a man or woman What the f**k? Are you really okay? What are you try

People always complain that their work is not going well People always attribute their faults to something People always think they have the most problems People always compare themselves to others People always envy others just because of what they have be it money,fame, beauty etc. But you forget that God is the maker and provider of everything He alone can make you successful Many at times we forget to just say thank you to Him. The fact that we are still alive and counted among the living, the only thing He needs from you is your praises The fact that we are not dead, we can still do more and achieve everything if only we call on to Him And make Him the ruler of our lives Just do what you have to do and leave the rest to God Almighty And He will surely deliver if only you believe in him and trust him Don't compare yourself to other people I know sometimes it is frustration but... Do you even know what they go through everyday? They may even want what you have

Everyone wants a fairy tale relationship  Where the story line goes like this On one bright Saturday afternoon at the mall I was just checking out some dresses when suddenly my purse fell I reached to pick it when he decided to do that for me I looked at him and it was love at first sight We started talking and it felt like we had known each other forever Shortly after we started dating This guy was just amazing He understood me and accepted my flaws  He was just my kind of man The love was deep and I loved every inch of it Years after, he popped the question   And I gladly accepted And we've lived happily ever after till now These kind of stories doesn't exist in reality Trust me....they don't In the beginning of every relationship is very lovely and sweet but getting to the middle of it, things become very sour And that is where questions start popping up in our  minds "Why is he/she doing this to me?, does he/she really

Your skin color is beautiful and unique Why change it? You are beautiful just the way you are Remember God created us in his own image So why will you bleach your skin? Bleaching doesn't bring you more money It doesn't give you more life on earth It doesn't give you fame It doesn't give you honor It only makes you waste your money just to keep up with what you've started It destroys your skin It destroys your image And you will end up looking ugly after your youthful days Mind you, your skin has nothing to do with your beauty You just have to build your confidence and poise And you are good to go Say no to bleaching!!!!! And be yourself    

How handsome you are? Your steps are like ink dipped on paper Your muscles are well built like gigantic walls in Egypt Your lips are pinky wet like the strawberry Your fire burns rapidly in me that causes me to burn Your touch is warm and sweet like the cold weather An angel that no woman can do without An extraordinary bird that has beautiful features like the parrot Your love is pure and calm like the enchanted fairy tales And your arms filled with care like the warmly embrace of a mother

 The journey of life The experiences we meet The new things we learn The new people we interact with And the diverse culture we learn The struggles we encounter And the decisions we have to make And the choices that we choose Then all of a sudden, Uncertainty sets in, Confusion leads to a dilemma A dilemma leads to a much more complex issue  What more does life bring us   It seems the journey never end   Hmmmmmmm.................................

                                               UPLIFTMENT       Have you ever doubted yourself or thrown in the towel saying enough is enough no more? never think is too late to succeed. renowned people such as Bill Clinton, Obama and the rest that we hear about them on T.V, the internet and radio never got it easy. They fought really hard into getting to where they are today, so mind you giving up is not an option if you really want to be successful.       Getting there requires a lot of strength and sacrifices but please do not overwork yourself when the ideas are not forthcoming. Just relax the brain by doing something you love like reading, listening to music or watching your favorite movie be it action, romance or comedy. Always remember success comes from within so never doubt yourself cause you are greater than you think