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 I was talking to a friend some time ago and this came up. I realized that some men love speaking down on their ladies so that when the lady goes out she feels like she's not worthy.

The men do that because they feel insecure. They claim that when the lady gets to know how beautiful and smart she is, is going to get into her head. Seriously??? This is barbaric!!!

Are you not suppose to rather do the opposite so that when she goes out there she feels confident enough to do what she's suppose to do; Be it at work or at a hangout with her friends.

This is simply torture and this kind of relationship is toxic. It is verbal abuse. If you are in this kind of relationship please talk about it with your partner or just quit the relationship because you don't deserve this kind of relationship.

You are beautiful, smart , intelligent, unique, God's own handiwork. You don't need all that.

Run from it please before it destroys you. Someone who is not strong enough can easily commit suicide because she will keep questioning herself all the time.

Deep down I know a M.A.N (Mature, Assertive,  Noble) will not do this.



Always remember "Don't waste time on people who are toxic" Distance yourself!!!



#positivevibesonly



PEACE!!!         SHALOM!!!

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