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 This year has been crazy but all thanks to God Almighty, without him, Life would have been crazier than what it is. He has been good to us and we will forever be grateful to him. Leave every baggage you have in 2021 and start 2022 with no baggage and with a clear mind  Don't rush into anything Take your time and allow yourself to evolve 2022 will be a great year for all of us Is a year of manifestations and multiple blessings Start seeing the new year as a year of better prospects and achieving more goals Those that you cut off last year please do not bring them into the new year, there's a reason why you did that Be confident and love yourself more in the new year And never settle for less For you deserve the best always Cheers to 2022 Cheers to Peace Cheers to Happiness Cheers to the best things of life Always remember "We are going to succeed big this new year.....xoxo" #Positivevibesonly PEACE!!!          SHALOM!!!

  I remember some years ago a friend asked me to write him a speech for graduation.  I took it up and did my research on how to execute it and make it precise and easy for people to understand I spent hours writing it and when I was done with it, I forwarded it to him and what he said was the speech looked like it was written for an SHS graduate. After he said that, he sent me something he had written and what he did was to just change the grammar.  I sometimes feel communication is often a barrier to so many people and we make our speeches so complicated that the next person doesn't even understand it  This speech I wrote for my friend was meant to be read by a minister so because of that he felt the words should be huge like flabbergasted, perplexed etc. One thing we forget is these speeches are meant to be understood and not to show off  If you read a speech full of big words and no one gets to understand what you are saying then what have you achieved at the...

 Figuring out what you want to do in life is a good thing but if you don't have any clue that is okay. Don't beat yourself up because of it Keep learning, explore and think about what you really want out of life Don't rush it  Take your time And you will surely figure it out when the time comes Don't follow the crowd just because you haven't figured things out for yourself Just allow yourself go through the process of self-actualization That is the only way you will get to know Always remember " Don't rush the process, trust it" #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!                     SHALOM!!!  

 I was watching a TV show and they were discussing about "Quatar". Apparently it's when people travel outside to do different fetish sex fantasies that people want and they are been paid alot of money. Money is important but this is too extreme. Someone pooping on you, peeing, eating poop, etc. I know that sometimes desperate times requires desperate measures but don't you think you should rather do more less extreme things than this particular thing. Think about it? The money may be very huge but is it really worth it? Aaahhba!!! Why would you be used as a sex toy for someone's fantasies? Please if you are considering this or you are in it, STOP!!!  IT won't do you any good. Some sacrifices are good but this one is a NO, NO!!! Always remember "Money is important but don't allow it control you in loosing yourself dignity". #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!                      SHALOM!!!

 Most at times we do not know what we have until we loose it. Why would you play with someone's feelings just because you know that the person is into you. Why would you play with someone's mind when deep down you know you are not ready. Why would you do that? After the deed has been done they then realize how stupid they have been and they begin to apologize. You have to know that when you loose a valuable thing you won't be able to find it again because you had it before and you disregarded it and treated it like trash. When you love someone, cherish and value them and make them feel like without them life is meaningless. Showing your true feelings doesn't make you weak Always remember "Cherish and Value that special person before it's too late". #Positivevibesonly PEACE!!!!            SHALOM!!!

 It's been like a minute since I was last here. It's been a very busy time for me so please pardon me. Life is a mystery; sometimes the kind of things that you encounter through it makes it incomprehensible but we still try our best to make meaning of whatever we go through Let's have a chit chat shall we? Have you heard about postpartum depression? Is something that mothers go through after childbirth. They become overly overwhelmed They feel their child is not theirs They feel the child is cursed They feel the child has no connection with them They feel they are not good mothers and so on  These are few things that they go through Going through pregnancy is not an easy thing and the after birth is not easy either Sometimes people feel as a woman, you have to be fine after the delivery but it's sometimes difficult There are some mothers out there that are finding it very difficult but no one talks about it The only thing we see on social media is the pre photo of the m...

 Let's have a chat about suicidal thoughts.  Sometimes when everything comes down to a halt, you feel like you are a failure or you are just not good enough Because everyone has failed you, neglected you and abandoned you So you think of killing yourself  Don't do it.  Failure is good and it helps you to try other options so that you don't repeat those mistakes anymore. Embrace failure with a new mindset See it as something that pushes you out of your limits  And stop thinking of killing yourself, that thought alone shows how weak you are You have to stand tall amidst challenges and struggles Never doubt yourself because you can do it YOU ARE A CONQUEROR #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!       SHALOM!!!

 Everyone has a problem. We are all going through something. Nobody has a perfect life so throw the perfection out the window and be yourself You are amazing and unique Nobody can have your finger print that alone should tell you something Don't allow society and social media influence your lifestyle. Be you Don't allow depression take control of you The enemy tries to use that against you and. that makes your mind distorted and confused Which later convinces you that you are not enough and that commiting suicide is the only option. Clear your mind of all your worries Surround yourself with People who love and care for you Go out there enjoy your life Acknowledge how far you've come The things you've achieved The person you've become with all the challenges and struggles you've gone through Don't allow anything or anyone to dim your light You are a bright light. Keep shining Keep soaring Keep being the best version of yourself Always remember "Everyday...

  Money is the root of all evil but it has power. Money provides with the things you need and allows you make things happen which is a good thing but making money a god over your life is a No No. That shouldn't happen We all need money yes but immediately you make it a god over your life greediness, enviness and jealousy sets in. That should stop.  That is why there are so many ritual killings and the like. Please let's stop making money gods over life Always remember "Don't make money an idol" #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!              SHALOM!!!

 Channel your energies to positivity It aids in doing your best each and everyday Having a positive attitude towards your goals helps to always being out your best Don't allow what others say stop you from bringing out your best All of us in this world are Gods and we have authority over everything in this world. The bible says so and if you have that mindset trust me nobody can make you feel less Always remember "Your positive energies connects you to a better direction" #positivevibesonly #PEACE!!!                 SHALOM!!!

What have you done differently today? Do you repeat the same way you do things? Do you visit the same places everyday? Life is too short to limit yourself to just one thing  I dare you to try something new today  It could be a new recipe, a different cuisine, reading of a magazine or a newspaper instead of social media, go for a long walk etc. Do something you haven't tried before  Having to explore is very good  It allows your mind to imagine, to do critical thinking, to relax and to rejuvenate yourself Try this today and lemme know how it made you feel Always remember "Exploring gives you a sense of imagination and appreciating life". #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!                  SHALOM!!!

  The clock never stops ticking so why do you stop living The cock never stops crowing every morning so why do you allow yourself to be discouraged God never stops protecting and believing in you so why do you doubt yourself all the time Don't allow people talk you off your dreams, your goals, aspirations etc. Don't stop trying  Even if you fail, don't quit  Keep doing it till you make it It takes time The Lord is your strength Always remember " Failure is not the opposite of success, it is part of success". #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!                SHALOM!!!

  The world was built without sorrow The world was a peaceful place When a baby is born, he or she is filled with kindness, love and purity.  The baby shares that to everyone they come into contact with They see things that we can't see because they are filled with a pure and a clean heart Until they are grown and they explore the world then society feels their heart with lies, pain,hurt and hatred. We as human beings made the world a dark place with our hatred, desperation, jealousy, envy and selfishness. That has to change. We need to retune our minds and restore the universe with light and love. Bringing smiles to people's faces instead of pain, sharing pure love to people instead of hate etc. If this is done, the world will be a better place for all of us. Always remember "RETUNE YOUR MINDSET" #positivevibesonly #retuneyourmind #spreadlightandlove PEACE!!!         SHALOM!!!

 Not everyone around you want your success. Some people can really pretend so you have to look closely and trust your instincts. Sometimes we neglect our instincts alot and that is the part of us we should really listen to because it helps us to avoid certain mistakes. Be careful of who you tell your deepest thoughts to. Some will listen and just discourage you, some will laugh and tell you, you can't and so on. You know who you are and where you want to be. Shut the world and do you. Whatever they say just don't pay attention to them. You are here for a reason. Follow your passion and you will surely succeed. Shine your eyes and remove the chaff from the wheat. Always remember "A small circle of loyal and true friends is worth more than a bigger one" #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!               SHALOM!!!

  Apple is a brand everyone knows. It is one of the biggest brands across the globe.  Overseas Iphone is seen as a normal phone but here in Ghana it is seen as a luxury brand. Iphone is really expensive here so anytime anyone is able to afford it we see the person as someone who has made in life. Well we know that there is imitation to everything these days so someone may have a phone with an apple behind it but it might not be the original one. hmmm Moreover, anytime a new iphone is out there, there's always pressure on social media. People  are desperate to get it, do anything they can to get it to the extent that some women sleep with older men or men that can afford the luxury brand just to have the newest version. For me I see iphone as a phone. If I get it I will use it but if I don't get it am not worried at all. After all if I get a phone with a quality camera and I can work with it and get certain apps I need, am good. No wahala at all I don't see why there's a...

 What is revenge? Revenge is harming someone because of a wrong done to him or her. I feel revenge is really a waste of time. Well someone would say some scars never fade but I feel when you start this whole revenge process you just give yourself extra work and waste time and money.  It's really not necessary to revenge on anyone. The bible even tells us that "Vengeance is of the Lord's" so why would you want to waste your time. You really don't have to do anything just allow God fight for you and go about your life freely. If you are out there thinking about revenging on anyone then please stop. The scars will not go away when you do and the pain will still be there so at the end of the day what have you achieved? NOTHING! Revenge is a waste of time. Forgive them for you and start afresh and enjoy your life.  Always remember " Life is too short to waste it on revenge" #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!           SHALOM!!!

  who do you look up to when you fail? Who do you speak to when all hope is lost? What do you do when the problem is too heavy for you to bear? How do you deal with the problem? I know that atheists will say when we look up and talk to God we are only talking to the ceiling or the wall but accepting Christ is through believing that there's a higher power that protects us Anytime I am in doubt about anything I speak to God about it and it really works for me When I do that, it makes me feel very calm and it feels like my burdens have been lifted off my shoulders It takes grace to be alive and to go through the challenges of life  And whatever goes on around us is indeed very hard to comprehend sometimes so if you don't allow God to intervene on your behalf trust me it will be hard In His word it says "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" Philippians 4:13 so if you don't allow him help you how do you do all things? God is always there to help us in...

  Do you get people laughing at you when you talk about your aspirations? Do you get them telling you is impossible? Do you get them trying to stop you by making you do something else? Don't allow anyone talk down on your aspirations Don't even give a listening hear to someone who wants to distract from what you really want Don't allow certain people control your life Everyone came into this world alone You didn't escort anybody into this world And because of that you need to live your life wisely  If you want to succeed in this life and acquire enormous wealth, never listen to dream washers, surround yourself with the right people, work smart, keep believing in yourself and in God. Always remember "Naysayers will always try to get to you but never allow them" #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!              SHALOM!!!

  Who do you choose as your friends? Are you particular of the kind of people you select? Or you just select them based on what they have. What is your definition of friendship? In my opinion, friends are people who make you better. They offer good advice. They help you to evolve. They are not selfish. They are not jealous about you winning. They join hands to help each other climb the success ladder. They connect you to people who will help you reach the top. They are loyal to you and they stay with you through thick and thin.  Be mindful when choosing your friends. Some friendships are for a lifetime and others are just a walk in a park. Always remember " A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out" #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!! SHALOM!!!

 Have you been in this situation before? Some time back I was  going for a program and the event was in the evening so I had already ironed my dress the day before. Prepped everything I needed for the next day so I knew nothing was going to delay me for this program. The next day I woke up, did my chores and everything. Late afternoon around 3pm I decided to take a nap so I set an alarm to get up around 5:30pm because the program was for 8:00pm. I did sleep but when the alarm rang for me to wake up I felt I hadn't had enough so I added 30 minutes to the time since I thought I still had time since I had already done all the necessary things When I finally woke up, I just put water on my body, dressed up and ordered for the Uber. The Uber finally came and we set off but traffic dealt with me big time. I got there and the program had already started. I got so angry but one thing I forgot to factor in was the traffic.  Ghana traffic is hell and if you decide not to include it...