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  Being with the one you love is a beautiful thing. Especially when the chemistry between both of you is magical.  Of late people enter into relationships because of material gains, loneliness, desperation, frustration, infatuation, lust and what have you. Hmmm..... I don't understand why when a lady is dating a guy, she expects the guy to cater for her needs like buying her expensive clothes, shoes, bags, wigs etc.  Anytime I talk about this I begin to laugh because is funny to me. What you have to know is that the guy is not your ATM and he is not oblige to take care of your needs. That is not his place. He is not married to you for Christ sake. If he wants to cater for your needs that's fine but YOU CAN'T FORCE HIM TO. Let me ask this when you weren't dating this guy, where you not coping? Where you not taking care of your needs yourself? Learn to be independent ladies. No man wants to date a liability. For the men if you are dating a lady, the lady is not mandated t...

  Life is sometimes difficult. You try so hard but yet still things are not moving.  You move 10,000 steps forward and later move 20,000 steps backwards. Back to square one. I know right. That's very terrible. But all these things shouldn't discourage you. These successful business tycoons we hear about on the internet, the radio, television. They all started from somewhere. It wasn't that easy but they persevered and worked hard and they made it. Don't allow anyone brainwash you. Telling you that you can't make it. That's a big lie. The world is very big to accommodate everyone's successes. All you need to do is to sow a seed. Start with something small. Clear your mindset. Start cultivating ideas and nurture them into prospects. Then in years to come you will harvest billions. Step by step you will surely get there. Avoid toxic people who will always want to pull you down. Always remember " When you Start the world will accept it. It all depends on yo...

 People can talk. Talk and talk but no show. No actions at all. They tell you I want to help you grow. I want to help you actualize your dreams. I want to invest in you. This and that.  Why do people always lie but never do what they say? Hmmm.... Stick with people who will support you. Stick with people who will help you with ideas. Stick with people who will brainstorm on how to make billions in the next 5 years. Stick with people who will help you grow and actualize your dreams. Not people who will always like to party hard with alcohol, waste money and be smoking like their lives depend on it. Wait a minute! Am not saying having fun is bad but you have to do it moderately and wisely. Not people who will influence you badly. Not people who will always like to see you suffer and underestimate you all the time. Not people who are self-centered and selfish No! You do not need such people. CUT THEM OFF!!! Always remember "Stick with people who make you better day in and day ou...

  Everyone is talking around you. They don't care what you think. Is only about them and that's all The questions they normally ask Do you work? Are you married? Do you have kids? Why are you still single? How old are you? Don't you think you are old enough to get married? The questions goes on and on Whether you are married or not doesn't matter No one is responsible to make you accountable for that or even explain yourself. If your time comes you will certainly do it. No one needs to rush you. You are not in a competition with anybody . Just do you and allow God do the rest. No pressure. When pressure is coming, just forget everyone and listen to your inner voice. Your time will definitely come and when it does these same people will be speechless. So anytime people want to make you feel inferior, useless, unworthy or a failure tell them this "I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I am royalty. My father does the impossible and He crowns me in grace and favour. Hi...

 How's your prayer life like?  How often do you pray? How close are you to God? Prayer is very essential in our lives. Prayer pulls us closer to God and it breaks every limitations in our life. Prayer is a very powerful tool in our Christian lives because without this tool we will be in the dark. Taking our prayers seriously puts a shield around us and the devil finds it very difficult to penetrate through it. Wherever you are taken to by your enemies, they will always fail because your prayers to God will be fighting for you. We serve a God that doesn't joke with us. If we pray to him and we continue to seek him through his word, he will always fight our battles for us.  His word tells us that if we call upon him in prayer he is faithful and just to answer us.  He will never allow any harm to come to us. If you are there and you are not taking your  prayers seriously then I advice you to plug into the power of prayer because this world is a very dangerous place...

 I hear these questions on the tv and sometimes in movies or series. "If God was real then why does he allow bad things to happen to good people?" I was watching some videos on tick tock and I came across this video with this same question?  A pastor went to the barbering shop for a hair cut and the barber told him that there's no God so why does he want to be a pastor? The pastor retorted and said why do you say that? Now the barber said "If God was real why do bad things happen to good people?" The Pastor got up, tipped him and then left. The pastor saw a hairy and grungy man sitting outside and tapped him. He said to him please come with me. The pastor took the man to the barbering shop and said if there were such things as barbers why is this man hairy and grungy. The barber replied and said is not that I don't exist but he never came to me. That's the answer right there!!! The Bible even tells us that God wants us to come to him and accept him as ou...

 Indecent dressing has been there since time in memorial but in this our generation it's gone out of hand.  Some ladies and guys dress like they are from the ghetto. Especially the ladies are making it seem like when you show more skin, you trend and you get more followers on social media. When you go on social media there are so many half nude pictures of ladies, ratchet dressing, showing their breasts and what have you. What at all are we teaching the next generation coming up? Are we trying to tell them before you make it, you have to show some skin first before people start following you or you get noticed? We are trying so hard to follow the westernized culture which is not us. Our culture doesn't showcase indecency but rather dressing  appropriately. I know some people out there may not agree with me and I get that. You can dress however you want to dress but you shouldn't overdo it.  Style is versatile not ratchet.  Always remember, "A GOOD NAME IS BETTER...