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  I remember some years ago a friend asked me to write him a speech for graduation.  I took it up and did my research on how to execute it and make it precise and easy for people to understand I spent hours writing it and when I was done with it, I forwarded it to him and what he said was the speech looked like it was written for an SHS graduate. After he said that, he sent me something he had written and what he did was to just change the grammar.  I sometimes feel communication is often a barrier to so many people and we make our speeches so complicated that the next person doesn't even understand it  This speech I wrote for my friend was meant to be read by a minister so because of that he felt the words should be huge like flabbergasted, perplexed etc. One thing we forget is these speeches are meant to be understood and not to show off  If you read a speech full of big words and no one gets to understand what you are saying then what have you achieved at the end of the day but

 Figuring out what you want to do in life is a good thing but if you don't have any clue that is okay. Don't beat yourself up because of it Keep learning, explore and think about what you really want out of life Don't rush it  Take your time And you will surely figure it out when the time comes Don't follow the crowd just because you haven't figured things out for yourself Just allow yourself go through the process of self-actualization That is the only way you will get to know Always remember " Don't rush the process, trust it" #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!                     SHALOM!!!  

 I was watching a TV show and they were discussing about "Quatar". Apparently it's when people travel outside to do different fetish sex fantasies that people want and they are been paid alot of money. Money is important but this is too extreme. Someone pooping on you, peeing, eating poop, etc. I know that sometimes desperate times requires desperate measures but don't you think you should rather do more less extreme things than this particular thing. Think about it? The money may be very huge but is it really worth it? Aaahhba!!! Why would you be used as a sex toy for someone's fantasies? Please if you are considering this or you are in it, STOP!!!  IT won't do you any good. Some sacrifices are good but this one is a NO, NO!!! Always remember "Money is important but don't allow it control you in loosing yourself dignity". #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!                      SHALOM!!!

 Most at times we do not know what we have until we loose it. Why would you play with someone's feelings just because you know that the person is into you. Why would you play with someone's mind when deep down you know you are not ready. Why would you do that? After the deed has been done they then realize how stupid they have been and they begin to apologize. You have to know that when you loose a valuable thing you won't be able to find it again because you had it before and you disregarded it and treated it like trash. When you love someone, cherish and value them and make them feel like without them life is meaningless. Showing your true feelings doesn't make you weak Always remember "Cherish and Value that special person before it's too late". #Positivevibesonly PEACE!!!!            SHALOM!!!

 It's been like a minute since I was last here. It's been a very busy time for me so please pardon me. Life is a mystery; sometimes the kind of things that you encounter through it makes it incomprehensible but we still try our best to make meaning of whatever we go through Let's have a chit chat shall we? Have you heard about postpartum depression? Is something that mothers go through after childbirth. They become overly overwhelmed They feel their child is not theirs They feel the child is cursed They feel the child has no connection with them They feel they are not good mothers and so on  These are few things that they go through Going through pregnancy is not an easy thing and the after birth is not easy either Sometimes people feel as a woman, you have to be fine after the delivery but it's sometimes difficult There are some mothers out there that are finding it very difficult but no one talks about it The only thing we see on social media is the pre photo of the m

 Let's have a chat about suicidal thoughts.  Sometimes when everything comes down to a halt, you feel like you are a failure or you are just not good enough Because everyone has failed you, neglected you and abandoned you So you think of killing yourself  Don't do it.  Failure is good and it helps you to try other options so that you don't repeat those mistakes anymore. Embrace failure with a new mindset See it as something that pushes you out of your limits  And stop thinking of killing yourself, that thought alone shows how weak you are You have to stand tall amidst challenges and struggles Never doubt yourself because you can do it YOU ARE A CONQUEROR #positivevibesonly PEACE!!!       SHALOM!!!